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9/11Borderline, Narcissist: Why They Can't Let Go of Each Other
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- Publication date
- 2022-08-01
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- Attribution-NonCommercial-NoDerivs 4.0 International
- Topics
- narcissist, shared fantasy, intimate partner, love, emotions, children, sadistic, discard, devaluation, idealization, codependent, borderline, trauma, hate, communication, covert, boundaries, defences, sadism, narcissistic supply, shame, guilt, grandiosity, splitting, relationships, anxiety, empathy, child, mother, psychosis, Narcissist, external, betrayal, abuse, love bombing, objects, functions, sex, services, safety, maternal, separation, individuation, regulation, dysregulated, labile, moods, cognitions, bpd, hooveringing, internal
- Language
- English
- Item Size
- 325.6M
Narcissists attaches to objects (books, human bodies) and functions (the 4 Ss: sex, supply, services, and safety); borderline attaches to her regulated states.
Different but complementary functions of their shared fantasies: engulfing (narcissist) vs. being engulfed (borderline).
Dual mothership in operation in both types of shared fantasy.
Approach-avoidance (borderline) vs. narcissist's attempted separation (devaluation and discard)
Hoovering for different reasons (introject constancy vs. object constancy)
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Different but complementary functions of their shared fantasies: engulfing (narcissist) vs. being engulfed (borderline).
Dual mothership in operation in both types of shared fantasy.
Approach-avoidance (borderline) vs. narcissist's attempted separation (devaluation and discard)
Hoovering for different reasons (introject constancy vs. object constancy)
Find and Buy MOST of my BOOKS and eBOOKS in my Amazon Store: https://www.amazon.com/stores/page/60F8EC8A-5812-4007-9F2C-DFA02EA713B3
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